01 恋爱与婚姻

第九堂

情感

01 恋爱婚姻

单恋枝花

dialgue

ji has paid undivided attentin t luy, but luy regards hi as a friend. ji's lleague jhn asks hi the develpent beteen the.

吉姆意爱露西，但露西把朋友待。吉姆约翰询问之间展。

jhn: ji, h abut yur date ith luy in the inea last night?

约翰：吉姆，露西昨电影院约怎样？

ji: ell, after the inea, e had a alking in the garden.

吉姆：完电影，园散步。

jhn: hat happened then?

约翰：什？

ji: e had a hat fr a hile. i said that i lve her, but she turned aside fr the tpi again. she alays said i as just her friend,and she liked t have fun ith e.

吉姆：聊儿。喜欢她，她把话题岔开。她总她朋友，很喜欢玩。

jhn: h, guy, i think yu need t al dn and ve yur affetin fr her n.

约翰：噢，伙计，想现需冷静，把感情再放她身。

ji: i really lve her ith y true heart. and i dn't think i an lve anyne else in y life.

吉姆：全全意爱她。想以再爱。

jhn: i an understand yur feeling, ji. but yu have tried yur best, and it's tie t give up n. there ill be a girl aiting fr yu, fr yu are suh an exellent guy. think psitively.

约翰：理解感受，吉姆。已尽力，现该放弃候。女孩等，优秀伙。想开点。

ji: thank yu fr nsling e, jhn.

吉姆：谢谢安慰，约翰。

jhn: k, let's g t play ping-png utside. e n, guy, be a an!

约翰：，外打乒乓球吧。走吧，伙计，男点！

ji: all right. give e a bat.

吉姆：吧。给球拍。

ntes

1. date [deit] n. 期，份；（非正式）约，约象；期，代；v. 确代，标署期，追溯；使显；（非正式）约

2. have a hat 聊，闲谈

3. tpi [?t?pik] n. 题目；话题，题

4. affetin [??fek??n] n. 爱，爱慕；感情，温情

5. exellent [?eks?l?nt] adj. 优秀，卓越，杰；精良，极

6. psitively [?p?z?tivli] adv. 乐观，肯，积极

7. nsle [k?n?s?ul] v. 安慰，慰问

8. bat [b?t] n. 球拍，球棒

贴士

frget-e-nt

frget-e-nt 被称为dn't-frget-e长水边蓝色花“勿忘”。英、德、意利各，许散文诗词以frget-e-nt描述相思痴情。认为frget-e-nt带身，恋永远己铭记、永世忘。蓝色花背，流传欧美民间浪漫爱情故呢！“勿忘”花名字悲剧性恋爱故。传，位德骑士恋瑙河畔散步河畔绽放蓝色知名字花，骑士顾命危险探身摘花，却失足掉入急流。知获救骑士举花，微笑她：勿忘。今，勿忘花语：永恒爱，浓情厚谊，永变。

i think “frget-e-nt” is the best gift fr sarah hen i eet her next tie.

认为次莎拉给她送“勿忘”再礼物。

表达爱

dialgue

tday is valentine's day.

今情节。

jeffrey: happy valentine's day, y seetheart! these rses are fr yu.

杰弗：情节快乐，至爱！些玫瑰送给。

anne: h beautiful! i lve these flers. thank yu, hney.

安妮：漂亮花，很喜欢。谢谢，亲爱。

jeffrey: e have been hand in hand fr ne year. it's y happiest tie in y life ith yur pany.

杰弗：牵手。相伴，最快乐光。

anne: e, t. jeffrey. life is seet in yur ars.

安妮：，杰弗。怀抱，活很甜蜜。

jeffrey: there are ups and dns in ur life. but yu are alays y belved ne. i ill ake yu the happiest girl in the rld.

杰弗：活开，难。但直最爱。让为世界最幸福女孩。

anne: thank yu fr yur affetin t e, hney. i' s happy t eet yu in y life.

安妮：谢谢感情，亲爱。命遇真很幸福。

jeffrey: are yu illing t arry e,hney?

杰弗：愿意嫁给吗，亲爱？

anne: yes.

安妮：。

jeffrey: this ring is fr yu. let e put it n fr yu. i'll take are f yu fr y hle life.

杰弗：戒指为准备，让为戴。照顾辈。

anne: a deliate ring! i think i ill be very beautiful ith it in the edding.

安妮：精致戒指！想婚礼戴它很漂亮。

jeffrey: yu are alays be, hney.

杰弗：直很漂亮，亲爱。

ntes

1. seetheart [?si:thɑ:t] n. ，恋，情

2. hney [?h?ni] n. 爱，恋；宝贝；蜂蜜；甘美；爱东西

3. hand in hand 手拉手，牵手

4. pany [?k?p?ni] n. 伴随，陪伴；客；朋友；群；司

5. in ne's ars 某怀抱

6. ups and dns 伏，代指活开难

7. belved [bi?l?vd] adj. 为……深爱，亲爱，敬爱

8. ring [ri?] n. 戒指，环，圈，环状物；铃声，钟声；v. 按（铃），敲（钟），打电话给

贴士

简单但实表达爱意句：

1. yu're the st beautiful girl i've ever seen.

最漂亮女孩。

2. i fall in lve ith yu at first sight.

钟情。

3. y lve fr yu is as deep as the sea.

爱深似海。

4. i really lve yu.

真爱。

5. i have n appetite beause f yu.

为茶思饭想。

6. i' head ver heels in lve ith yu.

为神魂颠倒。

7. i iss yu every inute.

刻想。

8. i think f yu night and day.

刻刻想。

9. i ill alays keep a ar plae in y heart fr yu.

永远块最温暖属。

10. i lve yu ith all y heart.

全全意爱。

失恋

dialgue

daisy and her byfriend just brke up.

黛西男朋友刚刚手。

ary: daisy, hy are yu still in bed? it's 9 'lk. yu shuld get up right n.

玛丽：黛西，怎床？9点。应该马床。

daisy: i' nt feeling ell. i dn't ant t d anything.

黛西：感觉舒服。什想干。

ary: hat's the atter? are yu sik?

玛丽：怎？病吗？

daisy: yes, entally.

黛西：，精神毛病。

ary: hat d yu ean by that?

玛丽：什意思？

daisy: i have just separated ith ark.

黛西：刚马克手。

ary: hen did that happen?

玛丽：什候？

daisy: last night, he said i as nt the girl that he anted. then he ent aay ithut turning bak any re.

黛西：昨晚。想女，头回走。

ary: h, i' srry t hear that.

玛丽：哦，很遗憾听消息。

daisy: there's full f the happy senes hen e ere tgether in y brain. i felt i had lst y heart t hi and i an't find it.

黛西：脑海全快乐场景。感觉己陷，找回。

ary: take it easy. yu have just lst a by h desn't deserve yur lve. daisy,everything ill be k.

玛丽：放轻松些。失值爱男。黛西，切。

daisy: i just an't adjust t the single life n.

黛西：现适应单身活。

ary: single life is nderful! lk at e,n sadness, n rry, and n pain. yu'll enjy it. i'll alays be by yur side.

玛丽：单身活很美妙啊！，伤，切担，痛苦。喜欢。直陪伴。

daisy: yu are s kind, ary. yu are y best friend frever.

黛西：真，玛丽。永远最朋友。

ntes

1. entally [?ent?li] adv. 理，精神；智力

2. separate [?sep?reit] v. 开，脱离；手，散；隔离；adj. 离，独立

3. separate ith sb. 某开，某手

4. turn bak 返回，转回，折转

5. sene [si:n] n. 场，景象；（戏剧）场；（舞台）布景

6. lse ne's heart t 迷恋，倾

7. deserve [di?z?:v] v. 应受赏（罚）；应，值

8. adjust [??d??st] v. 获校准；适应（t）

9. by ne's side 某身边，陪伴某

贴士

给失恋：

1. lve is a lap, hile friendship is the shad. hen the lap is ff, yu ill find the shad arund yu. friend is h an give yu strength at last.

爱情灯，友情影，灯灭，现周围影。朋友，最以给力量。

2. lve akes an gr up r sink dn. hih ne d yu hse if yu are unluky in lve?

爱情，让熟，让堕落。果失恋怎做？

3. dn't frget the things ne yu ned. treasure the things yu an't get. dn't give up the things that belng t yu and keep thse lst things in ery.

曾拥，忘记。，更珍惜。属己，放弃。已失，留回忆。

4. the nuber f ativities yu an n it t ithut the tie nstraints f a relatinship are endless. try finding a ne hbby, suh as travelling, surfing r taking hip-hp dane lasses.

爱情，间由很，以做很原间做。找新爱，比旅游、冲浪或跳街舞。

嫁给吗

dialgue

tday is alisa and henry's 20th edding anniversary, they are realling the day hen henry prpsed arriage t alisa.

今艾丽莎亨利20周结婚纪念。回忆求婚。

alisa: tday is the 20th anniversary f ur arriage. an yu still reall the day hen yu asked e t arry yu, henry?

艾丽莎：今结婚20周纪念，亨利。记向求婚吗？

henry: f urse i an. e ere n the beah that day. it as a sunny afternn.

亨利：记。沙滩，阳光明媚午。

alisa: yu ere a handse by at that tie. but there are rinkles n yur frehead n.

艾丽莎：英俊伙，但现额头爬皱纹。

henry: yu ere s beautiful 20 years ag,and i as ttally infatuated ith yu. i anted t arry yu s uh that i prpsed t yu ith a brred ring that afternn. yu kn i as pr at that tie. and i gt dn n ne knee in frnt f yu ith any peple n the beah surrunding us.

亨利：20真美丽，彻底迷恋。太想结婚，以至午借戒指向求婚。知，很穷。沙滩众证单膝跪向求婚。

alisa: h, jesus hrist! i have been heated fr 20 years. but i' still very happy. h did yu brr it fr?

艾丽莎：噢，呐！居被骗20。但仍很高兴。谁儿借？

henry: it as fr ne f y best friends.i paid fr it later. s e have never returned the ring bak.

亨利：最朋友儿借。付钱，以直把戒指回。

alisa: s triky yu ere, hney!

艾丽莎：真耍诡计，亲爱！

henry: and i as n re happier hen i heard “yes” after i said “ill yu arry e,alisa?”

亨利：完“愿意嫁给吗，艾丽莎？”，听“愿意”，真再高兴。

alisa: yeah, the senes are still in y ind. i as ved by yur hnesty fr yur eyes at that ent.

艾丽莎：啊，些情景现仍历历目。刻被眼睛真诚打动。

henry: d yu ind that it as a brred ring, alisa?

亨利：现介意戒指借吗，艾丽莎？

alisa: n, never. life is very happy these years ith yu.

艾丽莎：，。些活很幸福。

henry: tday is a speial fr us. i'll take yu t the gld stre, hney. i shuld buy yu a better ne.

亨利：今特殊。带金店吧，亲爱。应该给买更。

alisa: h nie yu are!

艾丽莎：真！

ntes

1. anniversary [??ni?v?:s?ri] n. 周纪念

2. reall [ri?k?:l] v. 记，回想，回忆，使想；提醒

3. rinkle [?ri?kl] n. 皱纹；褶皱；v.（使）皱纹，皱缩

4. infatuate [in'f?tjueit] v. 被（强烈激情或爱慕）冲昏头脑，迷恋

5. be infatuated ith 热恋，迷

6. prpse [pr??p?uz] v. 提，提议，建议；推荐；向某求婚

7. triky [?triki] adj.（形势、工等）复杂；狡猾，诡计端；机警；难处理

8. hnesty [??nisti] n. 诚实，正直，坦诚

贴士

h t prpse? 怎样求婚？

1. are yu bth ready?准备吗？

uh re than the prpsal, the arriage itself and the fat that yu are asking the t spend the rest f their life ith yu are hat it's all abut.

2. hse the ring. 选择戒指

stay ithin yur budget（suh as spending t nth's salary n a diand）hen buying a ring.

3. set the ranti sene. 设置浪漫场景

it uld be the plae yu had yur first date r sehere yu've bth alays anted t g but have never been. if yu are at he yu an reate a ranti atsphere and tailr it t yur partner. herever yu hse,yu shuld ake it the st ppular plae t prpse.

4. prepare fr the unexpeted. 未雨绸缪

n atter h uh preparatin yu are ging t put int yur prpsal,it's highly likely that things n't g exatly arding t yur plan.

步入婚姻殿堂

dialgue

bill and jy are ging t get arried. n they are preparing fr the edding.

比尔乔伊结婚。现正为婚礼做准备。

bill: hney, ur edding is ing. i think e shall get everything prepared fr that.

比尔：亲爱，婚礼快。想应该把切准备。

jy: yes, the design f edding invitatin has been pleted. i designed it yself.

乔伊：啊，婚礼请柬设计已完。己设计。

bill: h, y ingenius seetheart. it is suh an elabrate design. the guests ill like it very uh.

比尔：哇哦，聪明宝贝。真精美设计。宾客非常喜欢。

jy: dn't frget that y ajr as graphi design in llege.

乔伊：别忘平设计专业。

bill: and there's als an exiting thing. i have been aiting fr taking ur edding phts fr a lng tie.

比尔：件令兴奋。期待拍婚纱照已很久。

jy: e t, hney. hih style d yu like best?

乔伊：，亲爱。最喜欢哪风格？

bill: i think the elegant and ar styles are suitable t us. hat d yu think f it?

比尔：觉淡雅温馨风格最适合。觉呢？

jy: there's a piture in y ind n. yu take e ith a biyle. and e are riding n the untryside rad hih is full f beautiful flers n bth sides.

乔伊：现脑海副图片。骑车带，走郊外路，路两旁开满鲜花。

bill: i an iage that. it ill be a very brilliant piture. let's hse a gd pht studi t ake the nderful idea e true.

比尔：想象。张非常色照片。选错影楼，把绝妙想变现实。

jy: sure, hney. i' alays f ne ind ith yu.

乔伊：，亲爱。总想块儿。

ntes

1. invitatin [?invi?tei??n] n. 邀请；请柬，请帖

2. elabrate [i?l?b?rit] adj. 复杂；精巧，精制

[i'l?b?reit] v. 详尽明，详细制

3. graphi [?gr?fik] adj.绘画，文字，图表；形象，动

4. graphi design 平设计

5. elegant [?elig?nt] adj. 优美，文雅；讲究；简洁，简练

6. brilliant [?brilj?nt] adj. 明亮；光辉，辉煌；聪明，才华横溢，卓越，极；（声名）显赫；n. 宝石，（尤指切割形）钻石

7. studi [?stju:di?u] n. 播音室，录音室；画室；摄影室，电影摄影棚；制片厂；（艺术）工室

贴士

结婚周怎样表达：

paper edding 纸婚1周

tin edding 锡婚2周

rystal edding 水晶婚15周

hina edding 搪瓷婚20周

silver edding 银婚25周

pearl edding 珍珠婚30周

ruby edding 红宝石婚40周

glden edding 金婚50周

diand edding 钻石婚60周

初为父

dialgue

as a yung father, bviusly arl desn't kn h t take are f the baby.

为轻父亲，卡尔显知怎样照顾婴儿。

arl: linda, ur baby had a pee n the bed. yu e here t deal ith it.

卡尔：琳达，孩尿床。处理。

linda: desn't ur baby ear any paper diaper?

琳达：孩难穿纸尿裤吗？

arl: i take a bath fr hi just n. he desn't ear anything n.

卡尔：刚才给洗澡，现什穿。

linda: h, h abut ur bed?

琳达：噢，床怎样？

arl: it's all et n. e need t hange a lean bedsheet.

卡尔：现全湿。需换条新床单。

linda: h an yu ake hi piss n the bed? i think yu need t have a urse f baby are.

琳达：怎让床撒尿？想需婴儿护理培训课程。

arl: i didn't kn the baby anted t have a pee. this is y first tie as a father.

卡尔：知想撒尿。第次爸爸。

linda: k, i ill sign up a training lass fr yu trr.

琳达：吧，明帮报培训班。

arl: n, n, n. this kind f lass is fr thers, k? have yu seen any an attending this lass befre?

卡尔：，课程为妈妈准备，吗？以男参加课程吗？

linda: but h uld take are f ur kid if i' nt at he?

琳达：果谁照顾孩？

arl: i have an idea. yu resign yur jb and stay he as a full-tie huseife fr trr.

卡尔：想。明开始，把工辞，全职太太。

ntes

1. pee [pi:] n. 便，撒尿；v. 便，撒尿

2. have a pee 撒尿，便

3. diaper [?dai?p?] n.（北美）尿布；重复菱形花纹棉麻织物

4. bath [bɑ:θ] n. 沐浴，洗澡；浴缸；v.（给……）洗澡

5. take a bath 洗澡

6. bedsheet [bed?i:t] n. 床单

7. piss [pis] n. 尿；撒尿；v. 撒尿；倾盆

8. resign [ri?zain] v. 辞职；放弃

贴士

suth krea is set t all up t five days f paternity leave starting next year（in 2012）as an attept t raise the untry's l birth rate. three days are paid leave,and the ther t days are unpaid leave. in hina, if a ife lder than 24 years ld gave birth t her first baby, her husband ill be entitled t paid leave f 10 days.

韩明（2012）开始“父亲假”延至5，举为提高韩低育率。3带薪假期，两薪假期。，果妻24岁初次育，丈夫享10带薪护理假。

奈离婚

dialgue

the arriage f andre and sherry has e t the end.

安德鲁雪莉婚姻已走尽头。

andre: sherry, e shall have a divre n. i ust bring this frard tday.

安德鲁：雪莉，离婚吧。今必须提。

sherry: yu dn't lve e any re, is that right?

雪莉：再爱，吗？

andre: seties lve is nt the anser. lve an't slve all the prbles beteen us.

安德鲁：候爱并答案。爱情并解决之间问题。

sherry: but d yu think divre is gd fr us? dn't yu are even a bit abut the sentient beteen us?

雪莉：但认为离婚？难点乎之间感情吗？

andre: but the fat is that e alays hld different pinins. seties e even quarrel several ties in ne day. i an't bear it any re.

安德鲁：但实总意致。甚至吵几次架。再忍受。

sherry: e quarrel beause yu dn't understand e. yu nly are abut yur n feeling.

雪莉：吵架因为理解，意己感受。

andre: aybe it is beause e have different dispsitins and vies f life. e are just nt suitable t stay tgether.

安德鲁：或许因为性格活观念。并合适。

sherry: yu are just like t different peple befre and after the arriage. yu alays frted and pleased e hen e ere in lve. but hat i an see all day is yur ludy fae after the arriage.

雪莉：婚婚像两。相爱常哄，让开。但婚整阴沉脸。

andre: i have been t exhausted t lve, sherry. yu an find ne h uld lve yu re.

安德鲁：已疲惫再爱，雪莉。遇更爱。

sherry: i an understand a saying n: en are alays unreliable.

雪莉：终理解句话：男靠住。

ntes

1. divre [di?v?:s] n. 离婚，离； v. ……离婚，离

2. bring frard 提；提议，建议

3. sentient [?senti?nt] n.（怜悯、怀旧等）柔情；观点，意

4. dispsitin [?disp??zi??n] n. 气质，性，性格；安排，布置

5. exhausted [ig?z?:stid] adj. 耗尽，完；筋疲力尽，精疲力竭

6. unreliable [??nri?lai?bl] adj. 靠，信任；稳

贴士

“离婚”表达式：

1. divre

she has filed a petitin fr divre after suffering fr lng-tie desti vilene.

因为长期遭受庭暴力，她已向院申请离婚。

2. break up

break up “结束段关系”意思，比“结束段友情，结束段恋情或婚姻”。

their arriage brke up last nth.

月离婚。

3. spill up

they split up after a five-year arriage.

结婚长达5离婚。

4. break a arriage

e uldn't g as far as t break the arriage.

至离婚步。